How is college going? A message to first years and their parents

Dear College Freshmen and Parents:

As the application season is in full swing for high school seniors and I am busy helping students wrap up their applications and essays (remember those days?), I am thinking about my seniors from last year and wondering how each of you are faring at college.  

Students: How are you doing? Are you happy and adjusting? The first semester can be a tough transition, but hang in there: college life typically improves as the year goes on. I would love to hear about your experience and if the college you chose is what you expected. Would you recommend your school to high school students? I may ask you to connect with my juniors or seniors students so they can get an insider’s view of your school.

Parents: How are you adjusting to having _______away at school? I know from experience that there is no simple answer to this question! Have you been happy with your student’s experience so far? Is your freshman your oldest child? You too may be experiencing a tough transition. If you have older children who went off to college earlier, how is this time different for you? If it's your first taste of being an "empty nester," it may be bittersweet.

Whether you worked with me last year or three years ago, I would love to hear about your journey (parents, too)!

Best,

Pamela